Living a life of possibility is stopped by many things. Primarily, the strongest of these are the ego and fear. Ego will have you believe that your personal self-worth is based on "doing"" You are perfect, whole and complete at every moment because you exist as a piece of Divinity.
Social agreement, familial training and expectations were placed on you at childhood. If you made a mistake, depending on the health of your family environment you may have been made to feel bad or wrong. As a child, there were no options but to rely on the adults in your life to insure your well-being which for many of us, did not happen as they themselves were raised in dysfunction.
Newsflash!! You're no longer a child, you are an adult. Taking back your power, being in control of your life is now in your hands. F.E.A.R. false expectations appearing real were most certainly created in childhood and carried into your adult life. Many of us were not taught how to create boundaries of what's acceptable and what is not. Nor were we taught that our personal well-being comes first. You choose whether you will allow other people's expectations and judgments to control you and have meaning.
Now as an adult, you get to say how things go and whether they work for you or not, creating boundaries. Sometimes, things will not look they way we thought they would. Releasing expectations, creating boundaries, and making self-love and self-respect a priority, eliminates ego and fear-based barriers.
It's YOUR life. Live it to its fullest!!
Light and Love,